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Tired of Draining Relationships?

Natalie Reid • February 6, 2025

Here’s How to Get Your Energy Back


Ever felt like you’re always the one holding things down in a relationship!?


—whether it’s a partner, a friend, or even family


—but when you need support, it’s crickets?


That’s a draining relationship, and trust me, you don’t have to keep pouring into people who leave you empty.


How to Know a Relationship is Draining You

  • You’re always the giver. They take and take, but when you need something? Nothing.
  • You feel exhausted after dealing with them. Like you just ran a whole marathon… emotionally.
  • They guilt-trip you. Every time you set a boundary, they make you feel bad for it.
  • You don’t feel supported. When it’s their crisis, you drop everything. But your problems? Suddenly, they’re too busy.
  • The vibe is just heavy. Too much arguing, tension, or walking on eggshells? Not worth it.


How to Take Your Energy Back

  • Stop ignoring the signs. If it feels draining, it probably is. Don’t gaslight yourself into staying.
  • Set boundaries (and enforce them!). Saying no is self-care. You don’t owe anyone unlimited access to your energy.
  • Detach without guilt. Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to keep them close if they’re harming your peace.
  • Find your people. The right relationships will pour into you, not drain you. Choose wisely.
  • Put yourself first. Healing means learning to prioritize YOU, even if that makes others uncomfortable.


The truth is, not everyone deserves a front-row seat in your life. You can love people from a distance and still protect your peace.

If you’re in a draining relationship and don’t know how to break free, you’re not alone. Let me be the support you’ve been missing.


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